Add Makefile.depend.options to libnetbsd, mkimg and makefs
to ensure libegacy is build if needed.
targets/pseudo/stage/Makefile avoid the need for mtree
the staging process creates target dirs as needed anyway.
Reviewed by: stevek
Sponsored by: Juniper Networks, Inc.
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D39757
Extend it to other cases of meta mode cookies so they get the proper rm
cookie behavior when a .meta file detects it needs to rebuild and fails.
Sponsored by: EMC / Isilon Storage Division
This both avoids some dependencies on xinstall.host and allows
bootstrapping on older releases to work due to lack of at least 'install -l'
support.
Sponsored by: EMC / Isilon Storage Division
