create reasonably large cache for the keys that is filled when
needed. The previous version was problematic for very large providers
(hundreds of terabytes or serval petabytes). Every terabyte of data
needs around 256kB for keys. Make the default cache limit big enough
to fit all the keys needed for 4TB providers, which will eat at most
1MB of memory.
MFC after: 2 weeks
use a different mechanism for setting warning flags, and using
WARNS here only has null or negative effects.
Submitted by: bde (I think it means "submitted")
