Update a bunch of Makefile.depend files as
a result of adding Makefile.depend.options files
Reviewed by: bdrewery
MFC after: 1 week
Sponsored by: Juniper Networks
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D22494
Aligns the build with the FreeBSD traditional approach to not build in
contrib/, and to track inter-dependencies between libraries.
With help from: bdrewery
Reviewed by: bdrewery, hselasky
Sponsored by: Mellanox Technologies
MFC after: 2 weeks
Differential revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D15648