This adds missing includes, uses the standard dirent.h rather than the
BSD-specific sys/dirent.h subset (which works on macOS but not Linux)
and works around Linux's lack of st_birthtim.
This allows usr.sbin/makefs to be added to LOCAL_XTOOL_DIRS again on
macOS and Linux so that disk images can be cross-built.
Reviewed by: markj
Fixes: 240afd8c1f ("makefs: Add ZFS support")
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D36135