This was finding libraries that were installed into DESTDIR/usr/lib,
where DESTDIR is the stage directory, and then adding in usr/lib to
DIRDEPS. Just exclude the STAGE_ROOT if defined.
Discussed with: sjg
Sponsored by: EMC / Isilon Storage Division
Off by default, build behaves normally.
WITH_META_MODE we get auto objdir creation, the ability to
start build from anywhere in the tree.
Still need to add real targets under targets/ to build packages.
Differential Revision: D2796
Reviewed by: brooks imp
