Make it harder to exploit certain in_control() related races between the
intiial lookup at the beginning and the time we will remove the entry
from the lists by re-checking that entry is still in the list before
trying to remove it.
(*) It is believed that with the current code and locking strategy we
cannot completely fix all race.
Reported by: Nima Misaghian (nima_misa hotmail.com) on net@ 20100817
Tested by: Nima Misaghian (nima_misa hotmail.com) (original version)
PR: kern/146250
Submitted by: Mikolaj Golub (to.my.trociny gmail.com) (different version)
MFC after: 1 week