This makes the be_exists behavior match the comments that assert that we've
already checked that the dataset derived from the BE name is set to mount at
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Other changes of note:
- bectl_list sees another change; changing mountpoint based on mount status
turns out to be a bad idea, so instead make the mounted property of the
returned nvlist the path that it's mounted at
- Always return the "mountpoint" property in "mountpoint" if it's ste
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