(1) "ipf -T" is broken for fetching single entries and
(2) loading rules with numbered collections does not order insertion right.
(3) stats aren't accumulated for hash table memory failures
Approved by: re (dwhite)
ipf_dontuning.c - change the include to look in netinet for ipl.h
ipft_tx.c - make the private use of arrays with tcp flags info in them more
not use names that can be "confusing"
