Changes in the 2fe5a79425 moved dst sockaddr masking from the
routing control plane to the rtsock code.
It broke arp/ndp deletion.
It turns out, arp/ndp perform RTM_GET request first to get an
interface index necessary for the deletion.
Then they simply stamp the reply with RTF_LLDATA and set the
command to RTM_DELETE.
As a result, kernel receives request with non-empty RTA_NETMASK
and clears RTA_DST host bits before passing the message to the
lla code.
De facto, the only needed bits are RTA_DST, RTA_GATEWAY and the
subset of rtm_flags.
With that in mind, fix the interace by clearing RTA_NETMASK
for every messages with RTF_LLDATA.
While here, cleanup arp/ndp code a bit.
MFC after: 1 day
Reviewed by: gnn
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D28804