Add a flag so that soupcall_clear() is only called once to cancel
an upcall.
Move the test for xprt_registered in the upcall down to after the
mtx_lock() of the pool mutex, to catch the case where it is
unregistered while the upcall is waiting for the mutex.
Also, move the mtx_destroy() of the pool mutex to after SVC_RELEASE(),
so that it isn't destroyed before the upcalls are disabled.
Reviewed by: dfr, jhb
Tested by: pho
Approved by: kib (mentor)