that can occur when both sides close at the same time.
If that occurs, without this fix the connection enters
FIN1 on both sides and they will forever send FIN|ACK at
each other until the connection times out. This is because
we stopped processing the FIN|ACK and thus did not advance
the sequence and so never ACK'd each others FIN. This
fix adjusts it so we *do* process the FIN properly and
the race goes away ;-)
MFC after: 1 month