The vnode list lock is only needed to reclaim free vnodes or kick the vnlru
thread (or to block and not miss a wake up (but note the sleep has a timeout so
this would not be a correctness issue)). Try to get away without the lock by
just doing an atomic increment.
The lock is contended e.g., during poudriere -j 104 where about half of all
acquires come from vnode allocation code.
Note the entire scheme needs a rewrite, the above just reduces it's SMP impact.
Reviewed by: kib
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D23140