Cleanup of the disconnected list was broken in the SCB paging case
(confusion of NULLand SCB_LIST_NULL)
Implement a clean mechanism for determining that we have exited the timeout
state and test for this in ahc_done instead of all over the place.
Bring back the use of AAP (Auto Access Pause) I don't think it was the
true cause of the bus hangs people were reporting.
We want to reset the bus if we've been through an Abort action, not if
we are a recovery SCB (one implies the other, but not vice-versa).