r344504 added an extra ARP_LOG() call in case of an if_output() failure.
It turns out IPv4 can be noisy. In order to not spam the console by default:
(a) add a counter for these events so people can keep better track of how
often it happens, and
(b) add a sysctl to select the default ARP_LOG log level and set it to
INFO avoiding the one (the new) DEBUG level by default.
Claim a spare (1st one after 10 years since the stats were added) in order
to not break netstat from FreeBSD 12->13 updates in the future.
Reviewed by: karels
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D19490
886b55fe42