Currently ip6_input() calls in6ifa_ifwithaddr() for
every local packet, in order to check if the target ip
belongs to the local ifa in proper state and increase
its counters.
in6ifa_ifwithaddr() references found ifa.
With epoch changes, both `ip6_input()` and all other current callers
of `in6ifa_ifwithaddr()` do not need this reference
anymore, as epoch provides stability guarantee.
Given that, update `in6ifa_ifwithaddr()` to allow
it to return ifa without referencing it, while preserving
option for getting referenced ifa if so desired.
MFC after: 1 week
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D28648
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