On high packets rate the contention on rwlock in bpf_*tap*() functions
can lead to packets dropping. To avoid this, migrate this code to use
epoch(9) KPI and ConcurrencyKit's lists.
* all lists changed to use CK_LIST;
* reference counting added to bpf_if and bpf_d;
* now bpf_if references ifnet and releases this reference on destroy;
* each bpf_d descriptor references bpf_if when it is attached;
* new struct bpf_program_buffer introduced to keep BPF filter programs;
* bpf_program_buffer, bpf_d and bpf_if structures are freed by
epoch_call();
* bpf_freelist and ifnet_departure event are no longer needed, thus
both are removed;
Reviewed by: melifaro
Sponsored by: Yandex LLC
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D20224
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