Run the bridge datapath under epoch, rather than under the
BRIDGE_LOCK().
We still take the BRIDGE_LOCK() whenever we insert or delete items in
the relevant lists, but we use epoch callbacks to free items so that
it's safe to iterate the lists without the BRIDGE_LOCK.
Tests on mercat5/6 shows this increases bridge throughput significantly,
from 3.7Mpps to 18.6Mpps.
Reviewed by: emaste, philip, melifaro
MFC after: 2 months
Sponsored by: The FreeBSD Foundation
Differential Revision: https://reviews.freebsd.org/D24250
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